When I mention cemeteries, what is your first
thought? Did you know that cemeteries are for the living as much as they are
for the dead? I’ve been posting about my favorite cemetery, Laurel Hill, over
the years and there is a reason that I love this place. This cemetery is a good
place for me to communicate with the souls on the other side of the veil. I
love learning about their history and the history of Philadelphia. But, there
is so much more to like at the cemetery because of their kick-ass events.
My friend and fellow ghost investigator, Rita, and I
began volunteering at the cemetery because of the many events offered during
the year. One of our favorite is the one offered during Halloween. Last night
Rita and I manned the refreshment table along with three other volunteers. The
event was True Tales from the Tombs presented by the “Not Ready for Afterlife
Players & Friends of Laurel Hill Cemetery.
After visitors stopped at our refreshment table for
their hot cider, cookies and candy, they were led by guides to visit several
grave sites where the actors portraying the spirits of notable people like:
Benjamin Hodgson, Maurice Fagan, Martha Drinnan, Margaret and Elisha Kent, Anne
W. Penfield, Singleton Mercer, Margaret Fox, Nathan Dunn, and Mahlon H.
Heberton talked about their life and unexpected deaths. Isn’t any death
unexpected when the Grim Reaper points at us?
Under the skilled supervision of Nick McAllister,
Beth Savastana, Emma Stern, Carol Yaster, Suhee You, Casey Cappello, Bill
Doran, David Gurmai, and Shawn Jacobsen, the event ran smoothly and all the
guests, both living and dead enjoyed a fabulous show in the crisp fall night.
Check out the event page for Laurel Hill Cemetery to
see the upcoming events and say hello to the spirits for me.
I didn’t actually have a sit down meal with the
spirits, but they were there with me and my friends. This week I had the
opportunity to do two ghost investigations; one scheduled and one by accident.
On Sunday night, Marti Haines and Marcia Moore, the owners of “On Angels’Wings” took a group of professional investigators to a beautiful café in
Bordentown, NJ.
Under the Moon Cafe is owned by the mother and son
team, Estela and Santiago Orosco and what they offer their customers is a warm
and welcoming atmosphere with good home cooked meals which consist of Italian,
Spanish/Basque and Tapas bars.
While waiting for the rest of the group to arrive at
the café, Rita and I ordered dessert and it was absolutely heavenly. As soon as
the Café had closed, Santiago and his staff reported what they and their
customers had experienced on many occasions. The investigation began soon
after.
While Marcia and Marti are still reviewing all the results collected
that night, I will say this; the café is very active and the spirits friendly.
I’m looking forward to returning to Under the Moon Café, but this time before
we do the investigation I intend to have the Carne Con Ajos.
Unplanned Investigation
On Tuesday, Diane, Jean and I went to visit a fellow
investigator at NE Philly hospital. It was late in the afternoon and we were
hungry. Diane told us about the very old historical King George II Inn. She
said the food was great and that it was haunted. The mention of ghosts
convinced us to head on down to the river for what turned out to be a very
interesting lunch.
The story of the Inn starts in 1681 when Samuel
Clift established a ferry service between Bristol, PA and Burlington, NJ.
Ferries were the only form of transportation between these two towns until the
opening of the Burlington-Bristol Bridge in 1929.
Over the years, the Inn, which is located at 102 Radcliffe
Street in Bristol, Pa, passed through many owners and went by many names and
the Inn boasts many famous people sleeping there. I often wonder how George
Washington ever had enough time to even fight the Revolutionary War because
this guy seemed to spend a lot of time sleeping at inns.
As soon as we entered the building, all three of us
sensed the spirits. Our psychic abilities so strong and the spirits so eager to
interact with us that we didn’t need to use our equipment. We were able to get
more information about the building from the owners and their amazing staff.
After
eating an exceptionally delicious lunch, Diane, Jean and I were given a private
tour of the entire building; from basement to attic. We will definitely be
returning to the Inn for the food, but this time we want to take our equipment
and document what we saw and felt.
Conclusion
I see dead people, and so do my friends. Most of the
time, we’re not purposely looking for spirits, but it doesn’t matter. The
spirits know that we can see them and they want to tell us their stories. We
like to listen.
Almost all homes have a spirit. It doesn’t matter what the age
of the building is because even if the house is not haunted, the land itself usually
is. It seems that when the three of us girls are together, our vibrations are
much higher and the contact with the spirit world is easier. What made these
two investigations even more enjoyable were the fine food, great service and historic
ambiance. Sometimes a haunting can be downright fun.
There aren’t
many shows that earn my undying loyalty. I love aliens so the X-Files filled
that niche for me, but it was always the possibility of a zombie apocalypse
that kept me awake nights. When Robert Kirkman’s graphic novel became a
television series, I was hooked and so were all my friends and family. The talk
at the office water cooler went from Fox and Scully to Rick Grimes and
“Walkers.”
I’ve been writing the weekly reviews of “The Walking Dead” for
several seasons on Biff Bam Pop, and it is my favorite show. With the highly anticipated, but
nerve wracking Season 7 premiere of “The Walking Dead” set for October 23rd
on AMC, it was time to touch base in a personal way with Andrew Lincoln’s Rick
Grimes and his merry band of survivors.
The Journey
We know what’s
coming on October 23rd. We’re not stupid and we know that Lucille,
Negan’s barbwire baseball bat, will be used to kill one of our favorite
characters. I don’t care which character it is, their loss will be felt because
“The Walking Dead” isn’t really a tale about zombies. It’s a story about
people. Rick and his team have become more like family to us. They come to
visit every Sunday night after dinner. We, their extended family, ask them
every week, “What’s new?” Like regular family members, the news they deliver
isn’t always pleasant, but they know that we can handle the good and the bad.
That’s what families do.
This past
Sunday, we were taken down memory lane by the cast starting with the first
season when Rick awakes from a coma to learn that the world he knew no longer
existed. It was fun to hear from several cast members who have died on the show
and, it was fun to get their input into their characters. I discovered that there
was so much that I didn’t know about these apocalyptic family members. Their
revelations only made me love them more. I was surprised to find that I even harbored
fond memories of The Governor (David Morrissey). Thanks to the Governor, I’ll
never look at fish tanks the same way again.
Every family is
led by the patriarch and TWD’s father figure is, and always will be, Rick
Grimes. The story is really about him. I wrote an article on my observations on
Rick Grimes growth through the seasons and you can check it out here. Rick has
made some wise choices and he’s made some bad ones, but his heart was always in
the right place and his main objective was keeping his people safe.
Conclusion
We’ve stood
behind Rick Grimes and his people for six seasons and we’ll most likely stick
with him to the bitter end. I don’t know how I’m supposed to prepare for Sunday’s
show. It will probably be similar to watching a car crash happening in slow
motion. We know someone we love is going to die, but there isn’t a blessed
thing we can do to stop it. I can imagine the Tweets and Facebook messages that
will take place during and after the show. I did hear there will be an eighth season.
The Walking
Dead has done what no other series has ever accomplished. It has taught us to
survive in the face of overwhelming challenges. It has taught us loyalty. It
has shown us how an abused and mousey housewife, Carol (Melissa McBride),
became a kick-ass superhero and, it has shown how a gentle giant, Tyreese (Chad Coleman) was able to protect three children after everyone else ran for the
hills. The most important lesson we’ve learned is that the dead can’t hurt us
as much as the living and, when the dog doo hits the fan; we’re on our own.
See you next
Sunday and check out my review on Biff Bam Pop.
When we think of letting go, we normally think that we are losing
or giving something away. We may fight that urge to just let happen because we
assume that to let go is to lose control of the situation. But, and this is
something that I’ve been learning this past year, sometimes to let go is in
reality an act of power. When you release your fears, anger, and pain; you
become strong.
I was having tea with friends recently and the subject of
forgiveness came up. It is hard to forgive someone who has caused great harm to
you. Forgiveness is something that GOD preaches, but for us mortals, it is a
yoke that is hard to bear. Maybe it’s because we didn’t understand what GOD was
really saying when he said, “Forgive as I have forgiven you.” Maybe what GOD
meant was for us to “Let It Go!”
We don’t have to allow the abuser back into our lives to
forgive. We can forgive and send them GOD’s love without ever speaking to the
abuser. We are in essence saying, “You were a rotten snake in the grass and you
made my life a living hell...but, you are a child of GOD and I am forgiving you
from the safety of my home. I am sending GOD’s love to you even though I don’t
ever want to see your face again.”
Once we send this message and let go of the bad memories,
our life changes because we are no longer carrying the pain within. WE Let Go!
We are finally at peace with ourselves because our mind can concentrate on the
positive. We don’t need to play the scene over and over in our minds. The yoke
has been lifted. By sending out GOD’s love to our enemy instead of bad karma,
we are sending out positive vibes and this means that positive vibes will
return to us.
GOD doesn’t hold grudges. HE abides our constant
transgressions. HE forgives and HE lets go. He accepts our confessions and
promises of doing better, knowing that we are human and flawed. I want to be
more like GOD. I have been forgiving my enemies and sending them GOD’s love.
I’ve
even done this with the two candidates that are running for President. I found
this to be a bit harder than I expected, but I did it. I sent out a ball of
love towards both candidates. I have to be honest and tell you that I was
really tempted to send a bolt of lightning to one of the candidates but I
behaved myself.
Let’s try something different for the next few weeks. Why
don’t we all let it go and not put any political nasty stuff on social media?
We can talk about our kids, the weather, sports, the holidays...anything but
the political circus. I’m starting now.
I was invited back to God's Way by the wonderful and gifted hosts, Adolphina Shephard and Thomas Knights Templar. I love going on the show because the topics are so important about what is going on in the physical world and the spiritual world, which we humans are a part of both. Can't have a conversation about one without the other.
I had to rummage through my outfits to pull together a modified Steampunk outfit. This was my third time on the show and I was teasing Adolphina that I need to buy more Steampunk outfits if I keep coming back as a guest. On the show with us was Mary Silvernail who is a Psychic, Astrologer, Shaman and Psychic.
Check out the topic for tonight's show: Nibiru. While Adolphina was a guest on an earlier show with Christine , producer Brian LaPayower showed me what goes on in the control room as the show is filmed. It was very interesting for little ole tech challenged granny. Enjoy both videos.
Here is God's Way:
Here is Adolphina and Christine Schiavone on Spiritual Exploration
This year I did something that I dreamt of doing my
whole life. I took a trip to Italy. Although it was my first time out of the
country, I was not alone. I took the two ghosts that hang out in my attic with
me. My father and mother never had the chance to return to their home while
alive, so I took their spirits with me when I went on the Leisurely Rome and
Tuscany tour offered by Globus and Starr Tours.
This was a big step for me, especially because I
deal with a compromised immune system, plus and this is more important than my
illness, I have a habit of getting lost no matter where I am. My husband, who is well aware of my bad sense of direction, kept
reminding me before the trip to stay close to the tour guide. Dan was worried that I'd wind up in some other part of Europe. I was excited and scared to death at the same time
because I was going alone, but I needn’t have worried. New friends were waiting
to meet me.
from the left: Tonya, Me, Mary, Ken and Virginia
The van ride to the Newark airport gave me a chance
to chat with the other New Jersey people who would be part of the Leisurely
Tour. One of my new friends, Virginia, was interested in writing and most of
the ride to the airport was devoted to the opportunities that awaited her.
After the long plane ride which included a disgruntled passenger complaining
about the food, which I thought was very tasty for air travel, we landed at the
Rome airport where we grabbed our luggage and headed over to the first of the
hotels our group would be staying at.
The first thing I did as soon as we arrived at the Villa
Carpegna was to order a cup of cappuccino. After we were assigned a room, we
met with Francesco Nardin, who was to be our tour guide for the entire trip. By
this time, Mary and Ken, Virginia, Tonya, Tracy and Sharon and I had become
buddies with the other members of our tour group. My fears of being alone were
soon gone. I had met the nicest people and the trip had just begun.
Francesco, Me, and Wendy doing a photo bomb
Rome and the Vatican were more beautiful than I had
expected and I was so excited about seeing the Colosseum. Our tour guide, Francesco,
was so learned in the history of this city, but he also had the help of a local
tour guide to answer any questions we had about the St. Peter’s Square and the
Colosseum historical events.
I was trying to connect with the spirits attached
to the Colosseum, but I didn’t want to freak out my new friends and I had to
keep up with the tour group...maybe next time
The next hotel we stayed in was in Montecatini, but
first we stopped at the Vicchiomaggio Wine Cellars for a Tuscany lunch. We also
got to see the Leaning Tower of Pisa and the Square of Miracles before arriving
at the hotel.
At the Astoria Hotel I was happy to discover that my
room had a balcony. It also had a female ghost, quite a lovely woman, who wanted
me out of bed the first night I slept there because she needed to make the bed.
I convinced her to wait until morning. She told me that she had worked at the hotel
a long time ago. She loved the place and so she stayed. There was also a ghost
in the dining room.
She was also a sweetheart who explained to me that she
originally lived in a house on the land the hotel was later built on. She was
connected to the land, but loved the comings and goings of the guests. Neither
ghost bothered any of the guests. They only came to me because I can see them.
When I go back to Italy, I intend to stay at the Astoria Hotel again because of
its quaint ambiance and lovely hotel staff.
From the left: Me, Virginia, Mary and Tonya
One of the best memories I have of this vacation is
when a few of my friends and I played hooky from the main tour to ride the
train up to the mountain top to visit Montecatini Alto. Tonya, Mary, Virginia
and I spent the loveliest afternoon visiting the old churches and the shops.
Our lunch was the highlight of a peaceful day.
Every day, our wonderful tour guide, Francesco,
would take us by bus to visit a new site. When we would lag behind, we would
hear him calling out, “Andiamo! Andiamo!” That’s Italian for get your butts
moving. Florence was a treat, although we had to watch out for the gypsies. Francesco
also made sure that people, like me, who had special dietary needs, were always
served the correct food. I have diverticulitis which means that when I eat the
wrong foods, I can wind up in the hospital. I was so touched by this young man’s
vigilance in keeping his charges healthy. Thank you, Francesco.
The trip to Lucca and Vinci and then to Assisi were
magical and again we were treated to a special guided tour by one of the local
guides who knew everything about Leonardo Da Vinci. The streets of most of the
towns we visited were steep and I actually lost weight from all the walking
even though I was eating and drinking my way through this vacation.
The last night was spent in Rome at the Pineta
Palace. There were no ghosts, except for Fred and Lucy. The Farewell dinner was
wonderful as were all the dinners and, we did get to walk through Rome one more
time before we left. Tonya and I got to share a special Italian treat; roasted
chestnuts. When poor Francesco got too weary from losing me, he gave me the flag to lead the tour. I guess he thought he could keep a better eye on me.
Conclusion
I don’t know why I waited so long to go on this
trip, but now that I have traveled overseas, the travel bug has been awakened
in me.
My father is now pestering me to visit the town of Maratea. This is where his family is from and where our last name comes from.
I'm saving for the next Italy trip, but if I can’t get my husband to go to Maratea, I’ll just do what I did this time. I’ll take Fred and Lucy. I'm sure they'll introduce me to more ghosts when I'm there.