Life is not supposed to be perfect, or easy. Life is
a series of adventures. Some of life’s adventures are good, some are bad, but
on the whole, most adventures for a shy person can be potentially horrifying. Each
phase of our lives requires us to take a leap of faith. For some, this leap is
easy because the person has enough self-esteem to take risks. For others, this
leap is akin to death because they view failure as a reason to give up and
never try again.
I was a shy child, rebellious, but shy. It took me a
long time to find my voice and, now that I’ve found it, I will not be silenced.
My self-esteem grew over time because I forced myself to step off ledges. There
were many crashes to the sharp rocks below and many tears, but each failure made
me stronger. I find that in the twilight of my years, I have begun leaping more
and more out of the comfort of conformity and into the raging rivers of the
unknown and, I have never been so happy in my life. Each leap has given me
power.
Because I am a psychic and an Empath, I can
sometimes pick up on a person’s insecurities and I tell them that it’s okay to
be scared. I tell them that they can be terrified, but they can also take that
leap of faith. This year, I trusted the advice of a beloved mentor and I started
doing spiritual readings.
My first reading happened by accident while I was at
an event. I was at the Paraunity Expo to sell my book, Roof Oasis. Two of the
scheduled mediums had not shown up for the event. As soon as I entered the hall
to set up my table, I was asked to do readings. I could have said no. It would
have been easier for me. Reading a person drains your spiritual energy. I could
have said no, but I didn’t. My leap from the comfort zone allowed me to help
others that day; to emphasize to them that they were loved by the Creator; to
remind them that they were worthy of love.
I was at an event this Friday night that was hosted
by our South Jersey Writers’ Group. I watched as people took turns standing on
the stage to read their latest short story or poem. Some of the readers were
comfortable getting up in front of the crowd; they’ve done it before and they’ve
gained confidence in their work. But, there were a few new members there as
well and I can imagine just how hard it was for them to stand up on that stage
and read out loud to a bunch of strangers. They did wonderfully and, I’m
guessing that it won’t be so hard the next time they get up on that stage.
So, what about you? Does the very thought of taking
a leap into a new adventure, a new job, a new relationship, terrorize you? Don’t
be afraid. Trust in yourself. Know that we can only grow and evolve when we
conquer our fears and laugh at our failures. When you take that leap, look around...you’ll
see others taking their first leap, too.
Spread your wings and fly.
Great Advice, Marie! I tell people when they say that they're 'afraid', that it's OKAY to be scared or afraid. When you're scared, you're careful. it might turn out the way you hoped, but you tried. If you don't try, you'll never know what could happen, good or bad.
ReplyDeleteI think life is too short to not enjoy it. I was inspired by a young writer taking her first leap at one of our functions. Thank you, Joanne.
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