I spoke about psychic and emotional vampires in an
earlier blog called Negative Energy. On this post, I want to give some examples
on how you can protect your aura/soul from negative energy. Our souls reside
in the vehicle we call a body. The body and soul work on a symbiotic principle.
Both must be functioning perfectly for you to achieve a state of wellbeing.
If you don’t keep your body healthy, it will
eventually affect the spiritual part of you and, the soul and mind must be kept
in the proper frequency or the body suffers. Mind over matter is not some old
fable, but the natural order of creation.
How we feel about ourselves and others sets the
groundwork on how we deal with people on a day to day journey through this
life. If we’re unable to love ourselves, how can we even attempt to love
another being? We can’t. It is impossible to give to others what we are unable
to give to ourselves. Emotional Vampires know this and they seek out the people
who are in this category because they are easier to isolate and control.
Emotional Vampires drain your energy. They exhaust
you because they come from a dark place. One example of an emotional vampire is
the narcissist. You would be surprised to learn how many of these self-serving
people exist. They are able to disguise themselves in order to present to the
public an illusion of a caring person. They will never take blame for their
actions, but instead, lay the blame on others. They will build you up, only to
tear you down in public and then act surprised that you’re upset. The very fact
that you’re angry makes them stronger. And, Heaven help the sensitive or empath
that must deal with the narcissist. They have a tiger by the tail, but it is
not hopeless.
To regain your power, the power given to you, you must walk away from the emotional abuser. It will be hard to do. You will need help from people who see you as the beautiful person that you are. In the end, you have the power to claim your worth back. You’ve always had the power. You were given that power when HE spoke your name.
Very inspiring, Marie. So many people don't even know they are dealing with emotional vampires. Your posts will help a lot of people see what they're dealing with. Narcissists are so tough...
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jessica and that is why we wonder why our mood is so down. We are picking up their stuff
DeleteThank you for this, Marie. Identifying people who aren't good to be around, helps.
ReplyDeleteI hope this helps people. Sometimes, they are part of our family.
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