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Showing posts with label ghosts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ghosts. Show all posts
Monday, July 2, 2018
Life with Fred and Lucy: An Interview with Elsie Kerns
I am so excited that my humorous memoir about the two ghosts in my attic is finally done. I did a big book launch this past Saturday, and everyone who bought a book have been telling me just how funny it is. It is a tribute to my parents and growing up in South Philly during the 50's and 60's. Here is the interview. Thank you Elsie Kerns for doing this.
Wednesday, October 26, 2016
Eating With the Spirits
I didn’t actually have a sit down meal with the
spirits, but they were there with me and my friends. This week I had the
opportunity to do two ghost investigations; one scheduled and one by accident.
On Sunday night, Marti Haines and Marcia Moore, the owners of “On Angels’Wings” took a group of professional investigators to a beautiful café in
Bordentown, NJ.
Under the Moon Cafe is owned by the mother and son
team, Estela and Santiago Orosco and what they offer their customers is a warm
and welcoming atmosphere with good home cooked meals which consist of Italian,
Spanish/Basque and Tapas bars.
While waiting for the rest of the group to arrive at
the café, Rita and I ordered dessert and it was absolutely heavenly. As soon as
the Café had closed, Santiago and his staff reported what they and their
customers had experienced on many occasions. The investigation began soon
after.
While Marcia and Marti are still reviewing all the results collected that night, I will say this; the café is very active and the spirits friendly. I’m looking forward to returning to Under the Moon Café, but this time before we do the investigation I intend to have the Carne Con Ajos.
While Marcia and Marti are still reviewing all the results collected that night, I will say this; the café is very active and the spirits friendly. I’m looking forward to returning to Under the Moon Café, but this time before we do the investigation I intend to have the Carne Con Ajos.
Unplanned Investigation
On Tuesday, Diane, Jean and I went to visit a fellow
investigator at NE Philly hospital. It was late in the afternoon and we were
hungry. Diane told us about the very old historical King George II Inn. She
said the food was great and that it was haunted. The mention of ghosts
convinced us to head on down to the river for what turned out to be a very
interesting lunch.
The story of the Inn starts in 1681 when Samuel
Clift established a ferry service between Bristol, PA and Burlington, NJ.
Ferries were the only form of transportation between these two towns until the
opening of the Burlington-Bristol Bridge in 1929.
Over the years, the Inn, which is located at 102 Radcliffe
Street in Bristol, Pa, passed through many owners and went by many names and
the Inn boasts many famous people sleeping there. I often wonder how George
Washington ever had enough time to even fight the Revolutionary War because
this guy seemed to spend a lot of time sleeping at inns.
As soon as we entered the building, all three of us
sensed the spirits. Our psychic abilities so strong and the spirits so eager to
interact with us that we didn’t need to use our equipment. We were able to get
more information about the building from the owners and their amazing staff.
After eating an exceptionally delicious lunch, Diane, Jean and I were given a private tour of the entire building; from basement to attic. We will definitely be returning to the Inn for the food, but this time we want to take our equipment and document what we saw and felt.
After eating an exceptionally delicious lunch, Diane, Jean and I were given a private tour of the entire building; from basement to attic. We will definitely be returning to the Inn for the food, but this time we want to take our equipment and document what we saw and felt.
Conclusion
I see dead people, and so do my friends. Most of the
time, we’re not purposely looking for spirits, but it doesn’t matter. The
spirits know that we can see them and they want to tell us their stories. We
like to listen.
Almost all homes have a spirit. It doesn’t matter what the age of the building is because even if the house is not haunted, the land itself usually is. It seems that when the three of us girls are together, our vibrations are much higher and the contact with the spirit world is easier. What made these two investigations even more enjoyable were the fine food, great service and historic ambiance. Sometimes a haunting can be downright fun.
Almost all homes have a spirit. It doesn’t matter what the age of the building is because even if the house is not haunted, the land itself usually is. It seems that when the three of us girls are together, our vibrations are much higher and the contact with the spirit world is easier. What made these two investigations even more enjoyable were the fine food, great service and historic ambiance. Sometimes a haunting can be downright fun.
Monday, October 10, 2016
Andiamo Francesco!
This year I did something that I dreamt of doing my
whole life. I took a trip to Italy. Although it was my first time out of the
country, I was not alone. I took the two ghosts that hang out in my attic with
me. My father and mother never had the chance to return to their home while
alive, so I took their spirits with me when I went on the Leisurely Rome and
Tuscany tour offered by Globus and Starr Tours.
This was a big step for me, especially because I
deal with a compromised immune system, plus and this is more important than my
illness, I have a habit of getting lost no matter where I am. My husband, who is well aware of my bad sense of direction, kept
reminding me before the trip to stay close to the tour guide. Dan was worried that I'd wind up in some other part of Europe. I was excited and scared to death at the same time
because I was going alone, but I needn’t have worried. New friends were waiting
to meet me.
from the left: Tonya, Me, Mary, Ken and Virginia
The van ride to the Newark airport gave me a chance to chat with the other New Jersey people who would be part of the Leisurely Tour. One of my new friends, Virginia, was interested in writing and most of the ride to the airport was devoted to the opportunities that awaited her. After the long plane ride which included a disgruntled passenger complaining about the food, which I thought was very tasty for air travel, we landed at the Rome airport where we grabbed our luggage and headed over to the first of the hotels our group would be staying at.
The van ride to the Newark airport gave me a chance to chat with the other New Jersey people who would be part of the Leisurely Tour. One of my new friends, Virginia, was interested in writing and most of the ride to the airport was devoted to the opportunities that awaited her. After the long plane ride which included a disgruntled passenger complaining about the food, which I thought was very tasty for air travel, we landed at the Rome airport where we grabbed our luggage and headed over to the first of the hotels our group would be staying at.
The first thing I did as soon as we arrived at the Villa Carpegna was to order a cup of cappuccino. After we were assigned a room, we met with Francesco Nardin, who was to be our tour guide for the entire trip. By this time, Mary and Ken, Virginia, Tonya, Tracy and Sharon and I had become buddies with the other members of our tour group. My fears of being alone were soon gone. I had met the nicest people and the trip had just begun.
Francesco, Me, and Wendy doing a photo bomb
Rome and the Vatican were more beautiful than I had expected and I was so excited about seeing the Colosseum. Our tour guide, Francesco, was so learned in the history of this city, but he also had the help of a local tour guide to answer any questions we had about the St. Peter’s Square and the Colosseum historical events.
I was trying to connect with the spirits attached to the Colosseum, but I didn’t want to freak out my new friends and I had to keep up with the tour group...maybe next time
Rome and the Vatican were more beautiful than I had expected and I was so excited about seeing the Colosseum. Our tour guide, Francesco, was so learned in the history of this city, but he also had the help of a local tour guide to answer any questions we had about the St. Peter’s Square and the Colosseum historical events.
I was trying to connect with the spirits attached to the Colosseum, but I didn’t want to freak out my new friends and I had to keep up with the tour group...maybe next time
The next hotel we stayed in was in Montecatini, but first we stopped at the Vicchiomaggio Wine Cellars for a Tuscany lunch. We also got to see the Leaning Tower of Pisa and the Square of Miracles before arriving at the hotel.
She was also a sweetheart who explained to me that she originally lived in a house on the land the hotel was later built on. She was connected to the land, but loved the comings and goings of the guests. Neither ghost bothered any of the guests. They only came to me because I can see them. When I go back to Italy, I intend to stay at the Astoria Hotel again because of its quaint ambiance and lovely hotel staff.
From the left: Me, Virginia, Mary and Tonya
One of the best memories I have of this vacation is when a few of my friends and I played hooky from the main tour to ride the train up to the mountain top to visit Montecatini Alto. Tonya, Mary, Virginia and I spent the loveliest afternoon visiting the old churches and the shops. Our lunch was the highlight of a peaceful day.
Every day, our wonderful tour guide, Francesco,
would take us by bus to visit a new site. When we would lag behind, we would
hear him calling out, “Andiamo! Andiamo!” That’s Italian for get your butts
moving. Florence was a treat, although we had to watch out for the gypsies. Francesco
also made sure that people, like me, who had special dietary needs, were always
served the correct food. I have diverticulitis which means that when I eat the
wrong foods, I can wind up in the hospital. I was so touched by this young man’s
vigilance in keeping his charges healthy. Thank you, Francesco.
The trip to Lucca and Vinci and then to Assisi were magical and again we were treated to a special guided tour by one of the local guides who knew everything about Leonardo Da Vinci. The streets of most of the towns we visited were steep and I actually lost weight from all the walking even though I was eating and drinking my way through this vacation.
The last night was spent in Rome at the Pineta Palace. There were no ghosts, except for Fred and Lucy. The Farewell dinner was wonderful as were all the dinners and, we did get to walk through Rome one more time before we left. Tonya and I got to share a special Italian treat; roasted chestnuts. When poor Francesco got too weary from losing me, he gave me the flag to lead the tour. I guess he thought he could keep a better eye on me.
Conclusion
I don’t know why I waited so long to go on this
trip, but now that I have traveled overseas, the travel bug has been awakened
in me.
My father is now pestering me to visit the town of Maratea. This is where his family is from and where our last name comes from.
I'm saving for the next Italy trip, but if I can’t get my husband to go to Maratea, I’ll just do what I did this time. I’ll take Fred and Lucy. I'm sure they'll introduce me to more ghosts when I'm there.
My father is now pestering me to visit the town of Maratea. This is where his family is from and where our last name comes from.
I'm saving for the next Italy trip, but if I can’t get my husband to go to Maratea, I’ll just do what I did this time. I’ll take Fred and Lucy. I'm sure they'll introduce me to more ghosts when I'm there.
Saturday, September 10, 2016
Metaphysical Time Travel
We all have that one special person in our lives
that had influenced us by their words and actions to be the best we could be. For
me, my siblings and my cousins, it was our maternal grandmother, Maria Grazia
Federico Chiusolo. My grandmother was a very spiritual woman and she also had
strong psychic abilities that she passed down to all her grandchildren. She has
been on my mind recently.
Grandmom was born in Benevento, Italy. She came to
America at the start of World War 2 and it was a good thing because her home
was bombed during the war. My grandfather was already living in Philadelphia
and when Grandmom arrived in New York, she brought along her three children:
Anna, Lucia and Mario. This is a photo of them as young children and long before they came to the States.
Aunt Anna, Uncle Mario and my mother, Lucy
They moved into a home on 7th and Ellsworth
and there she and grandpop lived until her death sometime in the early 1960’s. Grandmom never spoke a word of English, but she
understood me and, I understood her. She always had rosary beads in her hand.
She was always praying for us...we were mischievous kids who also happened to
be accident prone. We needed every single prayer to keep the Angel of Death at
bay.
Like I mentioned at the start, Grandmom has been on
my mind, lately. Maybe it’s because I am going to Italy this month. It’s the
first time I’ve ever been out of the country and although I’ll be with a tour
group, I’ll be by myself. That’s okay. I’m not afraid and in a way, I won’t be
entirely alone. I have inherited my grandmother’s gift and I can see dead
people. In fact, there are two ghosts that live in my house. They are my
parents. Their names are Fred and Lucy. I told my parents that I’m bringing
them with me on this trip. I also asked my grandmother to come with me. Maybe
they can translate for me.
My sister Jane recently sent me copies of some
important papers belonging to Grandmom. I studied the papers and the photos and
after a few minutes, I was back in time. I must have been around nine years old
and I watched as my grandmother sang an Italian song as she cooked the pasta on
the stove. The door in her kitchen that led to the yard was open. It was a
warm, sunny day. I watched the chickens pecking for food outside in the yard while
grandpop cooked a steak on grill that he made from a metal can.
Time and space are connected and maybe we don’t need
a machine to travel back or forth in time. Maybe our minds, because we are
connected to the Universal Collective, are able to make that jump. I did that
jump today while looking at the old photos my sister Jane had sent me. You can
try this technique, too. Find a photo of a special person who has passed away.
Sit in a quiet room. Play some meditation music. Light up some incense. Hold
the photo in your hand. Take deep breaths...think of your loved one...now...go
back to that moment in time when you were your happiest with them. Let me know
if it works for you.
Tuesday, August 30, 2016
Steampunk Granny Interviews Jersey Paranormal Investigations
Everyone who knows me knows that I love ghosts
and zombies. I’ve been seeing the dearly departed since I was two years old, and I've always been interested in what goes on during a professional ghost investigation? I’ve had the pleasure of doing many ghost investigations with several different groups including one with a
very capable team known as Jersey Paranormal Investigations. I was able to find
out more about the team by interviewing three of the board members: Maureen
Carroll, Nikki Steward and Toni Gushue. Join me now as we learn what is takes
to search for spirits.
Thank you Maureen, Nikki and Toni for taking
this time to explain your work to my readers.What
is Jersey Paranormal Investigations, and why was it formed?
MAC
- JPI was founded in November of 2015 by people with many years of experience
in the paranormal field. We were looking to do things just a little
different (such as expanding Paraunity and letting the members have greater
control over the group as a whole), and thus Jersey Paranormal Investigations
was formed. I've been investigating since August of 2006, so this is my
10-year anniversary! JPI's investigators are all serious-minded
individuals whose main focus is the well-being of our clients. No matter
if the client is a private house, business, or historic location, JPI treats
them equally with respect and strives to achieve what the clients have
requested of us--evidence, counseling, fundraising, etc. All of our members are
volunteers and receive no monetary compensation. Our services are free and JPI
is an official 501(c) (3) charitable organization.
Maureen and Nikki
Maureen and Nikki
What
are the duties of the Board Members?
Nikki:
The duties are to take over
the world... Hahaha Just kidding. The JPI Board of Directors is like the
engine of a car. We are a big component of what makes it run, but not
without the rest of the parts working too. We oversee the day to day
operations of the group but also try to keep our members as involved as
possible in decisions. This includes, but is not limited to, helping with
new member interviews and voting on group expenditures. We oversee all
of our fundraisers and public events as well. Board Members review
questionnaires, schedule cases, and review case reports with the help of our
Case Manager, Beth.
Toni: There are
currently 4 Board Members and seats-Director-Nikki, Co-Director-Maureen,
Secretary-Toni and Treasurer-Sharon. Collectively, the four of us run the day
to day operations of the group, including training, financials, meeting
minutes, dispute resolution, networking with other groups, setting up
investigations and fundraisers etc. The
Board positions are elected positions, chosen by the membership, and each seat
is for one year, beginning January 1st of the year. This is something that I think makes our
group unique, as well as we put the power in the hands of the membership.
Toni and Nikki
Often, paranormal groups have a Director and that's it, they are the Director for the tenure of the group. This isn't necessarily the case with our group. Plus, in having four Board Members, if we are that split on making a day to day decision where it is a 50/50 vote, we will bring the subject to our membership and have them vote on the topic and give them the power to have a say in how the group is being run.
Often, paranormal groups have a Director and that's it, they are the Director for the tenure of the group. This isn't necessarily the case with our group. Plus, in having four Board Members, if we are that split on making a day to day decision where it is a 50/50 vote, we will bring the subject to our membership and have them vote on the topic and give them the power to have a say in how the group is being run.
What
inspired you to do investigations?
MAC
- I've always had an interest in the paranormal, but when I was growing up,
there weren't any of the paranormal shows that are so common on TV now. Sightings and In
Search Of were pretty much it. I had three experiences that I
can recall growing up, but the one that sticks out the most was when I was
around 16 or 17. It was Christmas Eve and my Mom and I were up late
wrapping gifts. Everything was spread out on her bed, unwrapped, when we
both heard footsteps coming down from upstairs. My house was built in
1906, and the stairs were made from Oak. Each step had a distinctive
sound and we could tell someone was coming down (as opposed to going back up).
My Mom asked me to see who was coming down. I checked all the rooms
as I made my way to the staircase and no one was there. I even went
upstairs and checked, but everyone was asleep--even the cat. When I went
to tell my Mom, we both thought it was weird, but didn’t' think much more of
it. The thing I find most odd now is that my mother has absolutely no
memory of this ever happening.
Toni:
I
always had an interest in the paranormal since I was young. My uncle's former residence was haunted and I
had an experience there when I was a kid and spent the night at the house. My cousin and I were sleeping in her bedroom
in bunk beds. She had locked the door
from the inside, why I don't know but she did.
When we woke up the next morning, a small table had been moved across the
room. She and I were young, maybe 8 and 6, so we weren't strong enough to have
moved the table and the door to the bedroom was still locked when I got up to
use the bathroom that morning. There
were a number of stories about things being moved around or going missing in
that house.
My Nana was always very interested in the idea of ghosts and
aliens and would read about them a lot, which was surprising to me as most
Italian grandmothers aren't talking about Lizzie Borden while they are stirring
the sauce. So, when she was done with a
book, she would pass it off to me and then we'd talk about it afterwards. It
was always our thing that was just between us. She will be 90 this year and now
watches the paranormal shows and we will talk about my experiences on
investigations and I will show her evidence we have obtained from public or
historical locations (private clients are always kept strictly confidential).
Nikki: I grew up in homes that had paranormal
activity in them. I became somewhat obsessed with the paranormal when I
was about 11 or 12. At the time, my mom was starting to really delve into
her genealogy. We would spend countless hours at libraries, county
probate offices and of course cemeteries. While she spent her time
pouring through records and microfiche at the libraries, I searched for any and
all books on ghosts and hauntings. Fast forward to 2003, a family friend
was visiting and we took a photo of her. Right over her face was what we
believed to be an "orb". This seemed to reignite my
passion for the paranormal. I sat down on the computer and started doing
some research. I found my former group, SJGR, and applied to join, curious
about what I would learn and how I could help others. Luckily, they saw
value in what I had to offer and the rest is history. I have spent many
years involved in the paranormal since then. While i was not always with
an organized group, i have always used my passion and intuitive abilities to
help those who are in need. It brings me great satisfaction helping those
who may be scared or do not understand why they have activity happening in
their home or business.
What
type of cases do you investigate?
MAC:
JPI handles all types of cases from the innocuous to "Emergency"
cases that require experienced investigator. These cases may be human or
inhuman, but are considered highly negative in nature. We also do a lot
of work with historic locations, bringing awareness of the location and
fundraisers.
Toni:
I
have only been doing paranormal investigations for about a year, but we are all
trained to handle whatever we may encounter along the way. Sometimes we may go into a residence or
business thinking it will be calm and the investigation is going to go one way
and anything can happen, so we must always be prepared to roll with the
punches. If we know we are walking into
a situation where we believe there to be negative entities at work, we have members
of the group who have specialized training and experience that we can send on
that type of case. Nikki has a wealth of
experience in this area.
Nikki: JPI handles many different types of cases,
including what we consider a "casper" case, which is generally just a
human spirit who may be trying to get the attention of the owners, etc.
We also will handle more intense hauntings which may be human or inhuman.
Site of Investigation at Red Mill
Site of Investigation at Red Mill
What
training is required to do this work?
MAC:
There are several classes that are taught to our trainees before they can be
considered for full membership. These include Psychic Protection,
Equipment Training, Electronic Voice Phenomena Training, Evidence evaluation,
Understanding the procedures and by-laws of JPI, Cemetery Training,
Preternatural Training, and many investigations to gain experience and
confidence. It takes approx. 3 months, but mostly depends on the
individual and if the BOD/members feel that person is qualified to obtain full
membership status.
Toni:
If
someone is an experienced investigator and wishes to join the group, we may
just ask them to take a refresher in an area, so that we know they are
proficient in it or trained to do things the way we do them within JPI.
Nikki: I believe that it is irresponsible to bring
investigators into the homes of our clients without as much information and
training as we can provide for them. While I understand that the
paranormal is still a field that there is much to learn about, there are still
some basic trainings that are an important foundation for all investigators.
Is
it required to have some psychic abilities to do investigations?
MAC:
No, that's a falsity some people believe, but the number 1 ability we require
is for people to listen and learn. We are all born with the ability to
interact with spirit energy, but most lose it over time--usually between 7 to
10 years old. However, it is something you can get back with a bit of
work. We say it's like a muscle that atrophies... you can work on the
muscle to get it strong and fully functioning again. It's the same with
our psychic abilities.
Toni:
Not
at all. In fact, we joke within the
group that I have absolutely no psychic abilities whatsoever! What is required is a willingness to learn,
to listen and patience. Patience is key
because paranormal investigating isn't like it is on TV where all kinds of
stuff happens in that hour span for the show.
Those filmings take days generally.
It's a lot of sitting in the dark, in the quiet, waiting for something
to happen. Then it's hours of evidence
review-audio, video, photo and the more equipment you own, the longer it takes
to review everything.
Nikki: This is a bit of a trick question, as I
believe that EVERYONE has psychic abilities! That aside, it is absolutely
NOT required for our members have any psychic abilities. An open mind is
the most that we require in that sense. It is really beneficial to have a
good mix of people with varying abilities.
Why
do ghosts stay at a particular home or site, and how do you handle the
troublesome ones?
MAC:
There is usually a reason why ghosts and spirits stay where they do, but we
might not always know the reason. Some stay with living family members,
especially during the holidays, milestones, and life-changing events.
Just as our family wants to be there to support us in life, they continue
to do so after they have passed. Another reason is they are attached to
the home, land, or a physical object. It's completely understandable if a
person spends 30+ years, for example, in their home, and then wants to remain
there after they pass. Maybe to them, that's their version of heaven.
When a spirit becomes troublesome, there might be a reason for it--such
as they are just trying to let you know they are there for you during a
particular time, or they just want to be acknowledged that someone realizes
they still exist even though their physical body has died. No matter what
the reason, we tell our clients they own the space they are living in and they
need to take control of it. They need to make the location feel like
their home, bring in light, live plants and maybe add a fish tank. They
also need to set boundaries, such as telling the spirit what they want or don't
want from them. People have every right to ask a spirit not to disturb
them when they are in the shower or trying to sleep. We just tell them to
be firm, but respectful, and to set boundaries when they are not in fear or
angry. We want to keep everything as positive as possible.
Nikki:
Since we have an extensive
questionnaire and investigation process, we often hope to handle any issues
very early on. I have had many experience with spirits that were just
plain ol' grumpy and unhappy with the residents, to Native American spirits
that felt their land was being disrespected. Each of these situations has
to be handled with complete care and understanding. Sometimes we have to
get an understanding of any religious beliefs that may be holding the spirit to
a location and if that is causing the conflict. I have had experiences
where I've had to not only counsel the homeowners and help them understand why
things are happening and how to deal with it, but also there are times when I
have had to counsel the spirits as well.
Walk
us through the set-up of an investigation beginning with that first call from a
client.
MAC:
Once a client contacts us, we send them out a questionnaire. This is a
form that gives us all the information about the client and the case, starting
with contact information, general history of the location and how much time
they've been living there, and then questions about what they have been
experiencing. Are they hearing voices or sounds? Smelling things
out of the ordinary? Seeing apparitions? Have there been other groups
involved? If so, what was their assessment of the case? etc.
Toni:
Once
we get the questionnaire back, our Case Manager, Beth, will reach out to the
client via phone and confirm details as well as get more information if
possible. After Beth speaks with the
client, she confirms with the Board and we decide how we will proceed with the
case. If we are responding to the
location, a team leader will be assigned to conduct a short preliminary
investigation. This involves meeting the
client and discussing information more in depth, getting a feeling for the
location and its layout etc.
MAC:
The BOD will read the report and make a decision on what will help the client
the best way--either doing an investigation or counseling, etc. If the
client is very sensitive to spirit energy, they might not necessarily need an
investigation. They just need to know how to handle their sensitivity.
That's where counseling is going to be more effective and help the client
more than an investigation would. Ultimately, that's what we want... to
make sure that we have satisfied the client's needs and met their
expectations.
Toni:
Each
case is really a case by case scenario because no two cases are ever the same
and each location and client may have different needs that we need to
meet. Our number one priority is just to
do everything in our power to satisfy the client and make sure their needs are
met and they are happy with whatever the outcome is.
It
isn't always easy for people to talk about paranormal experiences-plenty of
times we have heard "You might think I'm crazy, but" and then they
will go on to tell us something that they've experienced. No, we don't think you're crazy, we've heard
most everything. That's why it was
imperative that we put the words "without judgment" in our mission
statement. We don't want a client to
every feel judged or condescended when they are reaching out to us for
assistance.
How
can people contact you and is there a fee?
MAC:
We are very active on our social media pages, so Facebook, twitter, Instagram,
etc. They can also email us at JPIHauntedHelp@gmail.com or visit our website
at Jersey Paranormal. com All of our services are free of charge to the public.
Our most recent cases
have been investigating The Red Mill Museum in Clinton NJ. In September, JPI will be conducting a
paranormal fundraising event for them.
We have only been able to do 2 investigations, yet the evidence
collected from The Red Mill has been excellent and we haven’t finished
evaluating all the evidence as yet! We
have video of a trigger prop’s activation, another of a possible light anomaly,
and a slew of EVPs, some of which are interactive with investigators. There were personal experiences such as
investigators being touched, seeing shadows, and hearing disembodied
voices. The Red Mill certainly lived up
to its haunted reputation!
Thank you, ladies. If anyone is interested in learning more
about ghost investigations or if you think your home is haunted, you now know
who to call.
Sunday, August 28, 2016
My Ghostly Protector
I not only see dead people, but I have two deceased
family members hanging out in my home. Everyone knows about my Fred and Lucy
stories from my blog, but what they don’t know is that Fred and Lucy remain
quite active in their family’s lives even though they have passed to the other
side.
Everyone has ghostly family members who check up on
them. You do, too. Your deceased family member will make an appearance using
several methods to let you know they are there:
Smell
We associate certain scents with family be it
perfume, cologne, cigarette or cigar smell and even food. I always smell my mom’s
perfume, but it is one that she hadn’t used for years and years; Evening in
Paris. I guess Heaven keeps a healthy supply of that particular perfume for
some strange reason.
Dreams
Sometimes, our lives are so hectic that the only way
the deceased can contact us is through dreams. Don’t dismiss the messages you receive
in dreams. They offer support or warnings.
My dad likes to visit often, but he doesn’t come
alone. Fred usually brings other recently departed souls to meet me. Most of the time they want to tell
me how they died. At first, I was frustrated because I didn’t understand what I
was required to do with this information. I soon realized that I was only
required to listen and that took the stress away from the visits...that is
until my dad brought a recent victim of ISIS for a visit. The man just wanted to tell me how he died. The vision he sent was graphic. He also gave
a warning..."Don't allow adult male refugees into the country." I
Music
Sometimes, when you’re thinking of a loved one, a song
will come on the radio that you know they liked. With my mother, it’s usually a
funny Italian song that she would sing to us when we were little.
Electrical Activity
Lights or the television goes on or off without
explanation. Some spirits can even change the channel on the TV to get your
attention.
Displaced or Moved Objects
Our loved ones will try everything possible to let
you know that they are there. Sometimes, they can help you find a lost item. A
year ago, after my husband lost a lot of weight per doctor’s orders, he lost
his wedding band. We looked all over, even in the almost freezing pond because
he had been cleaning the aeration set up in the pond. We searched for an entire
week. Nothing! I was doing the dishes when I heard my dad tell me where to find
the ring. I told Dan to check his gloves. Bingo! The ring was in his work glove.
My sister knows when Fred and Lucy visit her home because they move things and
make lots of noise.
Touch or Sense
If the spirit is strong enough, they can tug at your
hair or touch your cheek in a loving manner. Sometimes, they don’t have to do a
thing, but you can sense them in the room.
Animals
Seeing certain animals over and over every time you’re
thinking about a loved one is definitely a sign that they are trying to
communicate with you. I always see the cabbage butterfly for my dad...even in
the dead of winter, and I see a moth for my mom.
Fred and Lucy
My dad is with me all the time. Maybe he feels the
need to protect me because I am a psychic and I do ghost investigations. Maybe,
because I was the eldest of the four children and he seemed to favor me. Maybe
it’s because he knows that I can be reckless. Whatever the reason, other
Mediums and psychics always sense him standing behind me. I’m okay with my dad
being with me. I feel safe, especially, when investigating places with a dark
history. My mom also stays at my house, but lately, she’s been hanging with the
grandchildren.
Conclusion
Do you sense a deceased loved one? Do you receive hints
that they are around? Do you acknowledge your loved ones when they do visit? DEATH
is not dead. Death is just a change of form from the physical to the spiritual.
I know my parents look out for me and it makes me feel good.
My daughter and grandsons are not afraid of the
dead. They know that Fred and Lucy are watching over them. I’ve told my
daughter and grandsons that I intend to visit often after I die. My grandkids
are looking forward to the visits, but they're hoping I come back as a zombie.
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